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A Disappointing Stay That Made Us Reconsider Four Seasons
Polished Courtesy, but Inconsistent Hospitality Our family stayed at Four Seasons Hotel Tokyo at Otemachi for seven nights. We booked a suite for ourselves and a separate room for my mother, so this was a substantial family stay and gave us enough time to experience the hotel well beyond a brief first impression. Unfortunately, our experience was deeply mixed. While the staff were consistently polite on the surface, the service often felt procedural rather than genuinely thoughtful or hospitable. The most disappointing incident occurred at the indoor pool. My son, who has received swim training, was swimming laps with speed and energy. He was not shouting, running, roughhousing, or intentionally splashing anyone—he was simply swimming. Nevertheless, a staff member approached him twice and asked him to be quieter because other guests were relaxing beside the pool. After the first request, he even moved to another lane, yet he was approached again. This is the hotel’s only indoor pool, and normal swimming naturally creates some movement and sound. A child should not be made to feel that he is disturbing adults merely by using a pool for its intended purpose. I was also left wondering whether an adult swimming with the same speed and energy would have been corrected twice in the same way. My son left feeling confused and uncomfortable, which was especially disappointing at a hotel that presents itself as welcoming to families. I emailed the manager that same evening. He replied promptly and told me that he would look into the matter. However, we never received any further explanation or follow-up before we left the hotel. A quick initial response is appreciated, but without any communication about what was learned or how the matter was addressed, the service recovery felt incomplete. Our experience at the hotel’s Italian restaurant was equally disappointing. I can honestly say that I have rarely—perhaps never—been to a restaurant where every dish was so poorly executed. There were five of us, and we ordered seven dishes. Not a single dish was finished. We had another reservation there for the following day, but canceled it immediately and never returned. Breakfast, by comparison, had both strengths and weaknesses and was generally acceptable, though not particularly memorable. There were also two genuinely positive experiences that deserve recognition. I was unhappy that our original room faced the helipad, and the staff responded promptly and proactively. They helped us move to another room and provided a complimentary upgrade. I sincerely appreciated both the efficiency and generosity with which they handled the situation. Our children also participated in the hotel’s doorman experience, and George was wonderful. He was warm, attentive, and thoughtful with them. He made the experience feel fresh and special, and the children genuinely enjoyed it. His care reflected exactly the kind of personal hospitality we had hoped to experience throughout our stay. We have stayed at many Four Seasons properties, and Four Seasons has always been our first choice wherever we travel. When a destination has a Four Seasons, we have historically chosen it without hesitation, largely because the brand is known for being genuinely family-friendly. That is why this experience was particularly disappointing. It left us questioning whether children are truly valued at this property, rather than simply accommodated as part of the brand’s image. We are planning a trip to Hawaii in October to celebrate our child’s birthday. In the past, choosing Four Seasons would have been automatic. After this stay, however, we are considering other hotels for the first time. After seven nights, my overall impression was of a hotel where many staff members have been well trained to appear courteous, but where the deeper spirit of service—anticipating guests’ needs, exercising good judgment, following through, and making families feel genuinely welcome—was inconsistent. At this level and price point, polished manners alone are simply not enough.